Thursday, March 27, 2008

secret2happiness




hi friends welcome to the world of secrets, secret to happiness, what is it? all our life right from our birth to death we are looking for happiness, we are trying to feel happy, we are listening to sounds that make us happy, we are avoiding things, people or whatever it is that is taking us away from happiness. i had read a very funny thing some time back, "a person first gets married to be happy, and later gets a divorce from the same marriage to be happy."
the other day i was in bangalore staying in a hotel with a beautiful garden restaurent. i used to observe this group of ladies, oh let me call them girls, though they were well in there forties. there behaviour suggested something else. i found them always happy, cheerful and laughing. i mean just think everyday consistently to be in such a state of mind is a great achievement. my curiosity took me to them, and after the initial introduction we settled down to understand the basic secret of happiness. and as we were chatting the secret was revealed. they pointed out to 4 very important steps to happiness. 1) having friends who take your crap and still keep your spirits high, 2) meditation 3) family circle who is very cheerful, positive and happy 4) knowing happiness is a state of mind which is not permanent but is achievable with the first three steps.
wow my day was done after knowing the secret of happiness from these beautiful young ladies. mind you all, these are the same ladies having the same lifestyle as many of you are having. but they follow the 4 simple steps to happiness. fantastic isnt it............. try it and let me know your experience.
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